Most people who have a panic attack if they are asleep are having a spontaneous panic attack. These come out of the blue and may be related some trauma from the past. Most spontaneous panic attacks come from a cumulative effect of stress and are often not related to a trauma.
How do you stop a panic attack in your sleep? Often the panic attack will awaken you and the first thing you need to do is turn on a light because panic attacks at night can be disorienting. You need to then sit up slowly because you may have a rapid heartbeat or a drop in blood pressure all effects of a panic attack. Sit up slowly and literally get your bearings. If you can sit at the side of the bed put your feet on the floor. Having your feet on the floor will help you feel grounded, which will help with the symptoms of the panic attack.
Next, while you are using self-talk to reassure yourself that “you are O.K. and are not having a heart attack”, start breathing through your nose and exhale through your mouth. These don’t need to be deep breaths; just regular breaths, which will help, decrease the feelings of panic. If you have previously had a panic attack, again use self-talk to “tell yourself that you have been through this before and you know that within a few minutes it will be over . . .just breathe!” You are using a Cognitive-Behavioral technique to decrease the effects of a panic attack.
It’s important to just keep breathing and focusing on your breath. If your mind wanders (It will it’s a thinking machine) then just bring your focus back to your breath. As the panic subsides you need to get up and get a drink of water (not a lot) and then tell yourself that you now will go back into a restful state of sleep and deep relaxation.
Go back to bed and focus on your breath and allow yourself to fall into that restful state of sleep and deep relaxation. Deep sleep!
Be Well!
Lawrence J. Schulte, Ph.D. C.Ht.
Ph.D. Clinical Health Psychology (1990-Present)
Registered Hypnotherapist (2016-Present)